Single in the city

This one is for all my single friends out there.

Seeing that I have found my one and only true love, I decided to write this to give you girls some hope, inspiration and blah blah …. Agh just read it

So I got to think about relationships and the relationships that I had in the past. There are those that open you up to something new and exciting, those that feels familiar and safe, those that brings up lots of questions followed by loads of problems, those that bring you far from where you started, and those that bring you back. But the most exciting, challenging and most important relationship of them all is the one you have with yourself. And if you find someone to love the you you love, well, that’s just fabulous.

The first thing I have learned from love is to never sacrifice who you are just because somebody else has a problem with it. Who you are and who they are won’t change and don’t think you will be able to change him.

So you want to settle? Most of the people you know are probably settling down or settling - because they are afraid that if the leave they will have to settle for less - and some of them won’t settle for anything less than butterflies.

For what will you settle?

You have to figure … if some of this world’s ugliest people can find love, there’s hope for you. Somewhere out there is another little freak who will love you, understand you, and kiss your 3 heads and make things ALL better. But what if you have to date several little freaks and all of them just makes it worse. Then you turn to your support system of freaks (you only have a few of them you know) your true friends. That is another valuable thing I have learned, you can never go through a terrible break up without a fellow freak holding your hand.

Forget about the past. Stop fantasizing about running into your ex (with a truck)
and move on. The past can be like an anchor holding you back from finding Mr. Right. So let go and let destiny lead you straight into his arms.

Is it EASY? Never. Your heart will be broken and you will break a few hearts, People come into your life and people go. But it’s comforting to know the ones you love are always in your heart.

I believe that all people deserve real love. Ridiculous, inconvenient, unpretentious, consuming, can’t live without each other LOVE.

My final advice, stay strong, don’t be afraid to take a leap of faith – even if there is no one to catch you – and last but not least NEVER QUIT

Posted by bottonz on November 11th, 2006 - Photo: http://www.trashionista.com